Showing posts with label Fun. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Fun. Show all posts

Friday, August 18, 2017

Fun and Pains


So today activated my Trigeminal Neuralgia big time and it was my own damn fault. I went on a family day out, well I was persuaded. It was a theme park so it was mostly outdoors, and today it was quite breezy. 
The wind hurt like hell, and I cannot describe how difficult it was to walk casually through there and not scream out in pain. As it is July, I would have looked like a clown wearing a scarf, so I went without. 

I am so sick and tired of letting TN rule and ruin my life. I have been living in fear a year now! How long more of this do I have to take? So today was a big deal for me. 

It was a great day, I saw Emu's, Puma's, Eagles and fricking TIGERS!!! It was awesome, and just seeing those magnificent creatures really helped my mood and I was so grateful for it. 

If I had allowed the TN and the fear and panic that comes with it to keep me at home today, I would have seriously missed out! 

I am in so much pain now, breathing is difficult. I can barely swallow and I know tomorrow will be worse and that is if I can sleep tonight. I have places to be tomorrow so I will have to get on with it. My vision has gotten worse now, and my face is slightly swollen, and as I am female I would like my face to at least look normal tomorrow. Just because I feel like shit, doesn't mean I have to look like it! 


Tuesday, August 15, 2017

Demystification Monday Fun with Hypnosis


You are gettting sleepy ... oh, wait. Maybe I should put this at the end of the post ...

Hypnosis occurs when Person 1 is guided by Person 2 to respond to suggestions. The suggestions usually involve Person 1 experiencing a change in sensation, perception, thought, or behavior. A person can do self-hypnosis as well.

*snickers*
There are a lot of misconceptions about hypnosis. The biggest one: Hypnosis is an unconscious state. Like being asleep.

Nope. Brain scan research shows that hypnotized people are totally awake. Contrary to how it's commonly portrayed in movies, hypnotized people can and do resist hypnotic suggestions, especially when asked to do things that are extreme or out of character. In reality, people under hypnosis are more in a state of heightened concentration but are still in complete control of themselves.

Some people are more suggestible than others. There are actually some procedures to test how suggestible people are. When I was in college and taking a clinical psychology course, my professor actually administered one to the class.

In this test, someone instructs you to stare at a spot on the wall and takes you through some relaxing techniques. And I swear, it does involve telling you that you feel really sleepy! They also make sure to tell you that you can only be hypnotized if you want to be.

When my professor tried to test our suggestibility, I really attempted to get into the spirit of the thing, even though I am a nasty, horrible skeptic (don't tell me something's true unless you want me to ask you HOW you know). She instructed us to try a bunch of things, like imagining our arms were really heavy or stiff. The funniest one was when she told us to imagine there was a mosquito buzzing around the room and landing on our hands. Someone next to me slapped her own hand so hard I nearly fell out of my chair. It was hilarious (sometimes I am a bad person).

In hypnosis stage acts, the entertainer uses a lot of techniques to 1) look for a really suggestible audience member and 2) play a lot of little verbal tricks to make it look like the hypnosis is working (they also sometimes just tell the person that they're going to help play a trick on the audience and to go along with the joke). Don't get that confused with the real deal.

Research has shown that hypnosis (hypnotherapy) can be effective in pain management, weight loss, and stress control. Also, can help with some sexual conditions! Woohoo! Ahem. Sorry.

What about retrieving lost memories??? Dun-dun-dun. You know, like using hypnosis to help someone figure out if she was abused as a child? Well, research shows that hypnosis does NOT help improve the accuracy of a memory--but it does increase a person's confidence in the truth of inaccurate memories!

Anyone seen that movie The Fourth Kind? Some hypnotherapists were totally ticked about that movie, which is about a hypnotherapist helping people retrieve memories of alien abductions. At this point, there's quite a bit of research to suggest that trying to dig up memories this way is pretty risky and untrustworthy.

If you're writing about mind control or hypnosis in a paranormal or fantastical sense, go to town. Get crazy. Give the vampire swirly eyes and make your hero to wild, unimagined things while in the grips of hypnosis.

If you're writing contemporary, at least go to Wikipedia and look up hypnosis and, if relevant, false memories, because the real world is a lot more complicated.

Have any of you been hypnotized? What was it like?

Friday, June 16, 2017

Fun with the Rorschach BUT MOSTLY A CONTEST


About a week ago, I was delighted and a little stunned to realize I now have over 200 blog followers. Thanks, everyone! Your insightful comments and emails have made blogging more rewarding than I ever thought it could be. And I guess it's time to have a contest to celebrate.

Next week, I'll do a few posts about projective tests, which are psychological tests in which a person responds to an ambiguous stimulus (either an image or word) by describing the first thing it brings to mind. Projective tests were originally developed as a way to unearth hidden emotions and internal conflicts (and there has been HUGE debate about whether they can do anything of the sort). One of the most famous projective tests is the Rorschach Inkblot Test. You've probably all heard of that one, right?

As I am a psychologist and eager to get my grubby paws on all your subconscious thoughts and wishes, I thought, for my first-ever blog contest, we could do a little Rorschaching.

Come on. It'll be fun.

(I'm kidding about my paws, by the way. They're actually quite clean.)

The prizes:
  1. A $30 Amazon gift card
  2. A 3-chapter crit from yours truly (if you're wondering what that might entail, check out this post)
  3. A psychologisty reading pack: A Writer's Guide to Psychology by Carolyn Kaufman, Psy.D., and 50 Great Myths of Popular Psychology: Shattering Widespread Conceptions About Human Behavior by Scott Lilienfeld and colleagues. [Both of these books present a wealth of information that will 1) make you look like a super-smartypants and 2) help you avoid common mistakes if you're writing about anything related to psychology or psychological disorders]
Anyway, back to the Rorschach. For this projective test, the examiner shows you the inkblot and says, "What might this be?"

It's considered extremely unkosher to display the actual Rorschach Inkblots (I'll talk about why that is in my posts next week), so I made one myself. Or, more accurately, my five-year-old son and I made one:


 Now, to enter this contest, all you have to do is comment on this post and tell me: What might this be?

Just write the first thing that comes to mind. Or, yanno, since you're probably a writer, make something up. Go wild.

Extra entries can be had for:
  1. Becoming a follower of this blog
  2. Becoming a follower on Twitter (I have a button! I really hope it works!)
  3. Linking to this contest on your blog
  4. Tweeting the link to this contest (please mention @finesarah in the Tweet so I can give you credit for it; up to 5 extra entries)
OK, please keep in mind that I'm pretty new to this stuff, so let me know if you've done any of those things and I'll give you the extra entries. Winners will be chosen via random number generator.

Deadline to enter this contest: Saturday, April 23rd, 11:59pm EST. Winners announced on Monday, April 25th, when I will also reveal which of you is likely personality disordered and/or psychotic*. Now ... comment away.

And as always, check out Lydia's Medical Monday post and Laura's Mental Health Monday post!

*Just so you know, I can't actually do this based on your response to my homemade inkblot. If you believe you are personality disordered and/or psychotic, please seek professional (in-person) help. But feel free to enter the contest as well.